STAY WISE AND MARRY RIGHT!!!
Someone once forwarded an image to me that says "African boyfriends are like African Presidents, the next one is worse than the previous one". I replied by saying African Girlfriends are like African electorate, they don't learn from their mistake so they end up repeating the same mistakes. They end up going for someone who is worse than their Ex.
As a matter of fact, it is not only the men who don't learn from their mistakes, the women are with the same bad habit. It makes no sense for any woman to hold on to a man who impregnated her because she already has one child from a previous relationship which didn't lead to marriage.
Common sense will tell you when you have sex with someone you are not married to and get pregnant, just by virtue of your pregnancy does NOT make you a married couple. The requirement for getting married is not pregnancy. For those who are still doing that, pregnancy is not bride price and knocking ceremony is not marriage ceremony or wedding.
If you stooped low to have sex with someone you are not married to, forgetting that unprotected sex leads to pregnancy, don't mistake that for marriage. If any man is promising to get married to you in the future, wait for him to marry you before you open your legs for him. If you don't know this you will end up getting pregnant for any man who comes your way as a lady, in the name of relationship, love and marriage.
In this part of our world, many people who had a child from previous relationships don't learn from their mistakes and ended up repeating the same mistake with the hope that the 7man in question will get married to them. Some of these ladies feel desperate and think they might end up with no man so they are ready to compromise and do anything just in the name of marriage. To the wise proverbially we speak!LET LOVE REFINE YOU!❤️
As a matter of fact, it is not only the men who don't learn from their mistakes, the women are with the same bad habit. It makes no sense for any woman to hold on to a man who impregnated her because she already has one child from a previous relationship which didn't lead to marriage.
Common sense will tell you when you have sex with someone you are not married to and get pregnant, just by virtue of your pregnancy does NOT make you a married couple. The requirement for getting married is not pregnancy. For those who are still doing that, pregnancy is not bride price and knocking ceremony is not marriage ceremony or wedding.
If you stooped low to have sex with someone you are not married to, forgetting that unprotected sex leads to pregnancy, don't mistake that for marriage. If any man is promising to get married to you in the future, wait for him to marry you before you open your legs for him. If you don't know this you will end up getting pregnant for any man who comes your way as a lady, in the name of relationship, love and marriage.
In this part of our world, many people who had a child from previous relationships don't learn from their mistakes and ended up repeating the same mistake with the hope that the 7man in question will get married to them. Some of these ladies feel desperate and think they might end up with no man so they are ready to compromise and do anything just in the name of marriage. To the wise proverbially we speak!LET LOVE REFINE YOU!❤️
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